My 50th Harvard Reunion

Harvard Square was empty this Commencement day, as it was last year. Except for the pandemic, it would have been mobbed with black-robed graduates and their beaming, picture-taking families. It would have been the 50th reunion of the Class of 1971.

Some of my classmates were involved in the takeover of the main administration building during the so-called Revolution in the spring of 1969. I was out of town that year, in a frontier kibbutz in Occupied Syria. The then-president of Harvard University called mine “the worst class ever.”

I’m not the worst member of the worst class, but I try. Every five years, at the major reunions, I make a fool of myself in some way. Our reunion committee used to schedule talent shows where any member of the class could sing or recite or play an instrument for five minutes.

At the 20th reunion, I read a poem about a new world forming suddenly, like crystals in a supersaturated solution. At the 30th reunion, in 2001, I read one about the meek, so nervous about it that I had to take my shoes off to be sure of my ground.

At the 35th, I harangued the audience about the Iraq War. At the 40th, I ran a slideshow called “Instead of Apocalypse.” By the 45th reunion, the committee decided those open-mike nights were too hard to manage. Instead, they offered an evening of entertainment by the famous artists and performers in our class. A good friend of mine ran off a few hundred stapled-together booklets of his artwork and my poems. We stood at the doors of the entertainment, handing them out. People took them thinking they were programs for the evening.

This year there were no events to take part in, or to crash. So I postered the Yard.

            Every life is big to the person living it.

The bulletin boards had just been cleared. There were many open places where I could tape up little slips of paper. I broke one poem into stanzas:

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Love is not dead, not defeated, not damaged, not out of reach. Love has not been bought, sold, or stolen. Love is not a wholly-owned subsidiary of any corporation. The kingdom of loving is within you. Love is not something you fall into. Love is something you make and keep on making. Love is an act of will. Love is a way of life. Love is the opposite of greed. Love is not blind; lust is blind. Love sees truly. Love is the only path to our survival. Love is revolution.

Revolution cannot be violent. Revolution is change. Violence is just more of the same damn thing. There is no use fighting to save the world with violence. The rulers of this world have more weapons and fewer scruples than anyone else. Violence is their game. We cannot win that game. We must stop playing it. We must play a new game. Our strength lies in one another. Love is real change. Love is revolution.

The world is changing. Learn to travel light. When the water rises, all your stuff will not help you. The things you own will mean nothing any more. Your community will mean everything. Be ready for the change. Pay attention. Help where you can. We will survive by taking care of one another. Selfishness is suicide. Love is revolution.

When the old world ends, the new world begins. In the old world, money was power. In the new world, spirit is power. You choose to make the world better or worse with every act. This is your power. Race, nationality, class, gender, physical appearance – these matter in the old world, not in the new. The most important things in the new world are the quality of your awareness and the strength of your relationships. The old world ran on greed. The new world runs on human connection. Love is revolution.

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I said hello to a few old friends: the guard at the gatehouse, the head of Yard security, an eloquent and clear-minded homeless man. Otherwise I was confident no one would want to look at me. I’m a short, plain old woman with a peace sign on my hat.

I’m invisible. I have trouble talking. But I can still speak my mind, and I hope you will speak yours.

How many lives do you think you have? Is this not your planet?

4 thoughts on “My 50th Harvard Reunion

  1. Sorry I did not meet you while we were in school. Sorry we did not meet at the delayed 50th Reunion. I usually have my shoes off. The free constraints, the better. I had not thought of being shoeless helped one be grounded. But then, I usually use socks.

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    • Hi Mark. I never check the comments on this site because usually there aren’t any, so I just now saw your friendly post. I’m also sorry we haven’t met, with or without shoes. If you ever get to the Boston area, like maybe for our 55th reunion, I hope you will get in touch. Meanwhile, be of good courage!…yours, Jane Collins

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      • 2/3/2025

        Jane, I do not even remember writing the little piece. However, it is true that I kick off my shoes most of the time. As a new lawyer 50 years ago at an old, stodgy 140-year old Kansas City law firm, I would run around the office sans shoes. Also, when I attend the KC Philharmonic or Starlight Theater, I find it difficult to make it through a performance without kicking off one or both shoes. (I usually go to cultural events by myself, so I have very few inhibitions).

        Since I started dialysis in December and do peritoneal dialysis 7 nights a week, I am greatly constrained from traveling around. This past summer, I attended a seminar about the English legal system at Oxford. That was my last hurrah until I get a kidney transplant. Nevertheless, I am hopeful that I shall become mobile again.

        I have focused on trips to New York City. I struck up a friendship with Mark Holland, a classmate who lives at the 42nd Street apartment complex for performing artists that the City of New York built during the period of Robert Moses when they demolished part of Hell’s Kitchen. Each time I go to NYC, it is like I discover new worlds. I would like to add Boston to my travel list. In college, I only went to NYC twice. I did not make it into downtown Boston much more than that. I probably went to the Isabel Gardiner Museum for Sunday concerts two or three times more than my visits to downtown Boston. After our 45th Reunion, I rented a car to tour the Fall Colors in Vermont and New Hampshire. When I returned to Boston in the evening, I got so confused by the street configuration that I finally gave up. I pulled up to a parked cab. I explained to the cab driver that I was trying to get to a motel in Medford so that I would be close to the airport for a morning flight. I could not figure out how to get from the sidestreets unto the correct highway to Medford. The cab driver took pity on me. She had me follow her cab; and she led me to the entrance of the highway. Boston remains a mystery yet to be conquered.

        I was heartbroken when I learned that my favorite restaurant in the world closed several years ago. Lochober’s was located on a half street called Winter Place. It was one or two blocks over from Boston Gardens. In school, I operated a little trans-Atlantic travel agency with out classmate Agung Anak gde Agung. He set up the company as a project to fill out his resume for Harvard Business School. However, since he did not want to risk embarrassing his family in the event the business failed, he installed me as his front man. At the end of the year, we celebrated the moderate success of the project with a lavish dinner at Lochober’s. We probably eat and drank up most of the profits that we made on the project.

        Nothing would give me greater pleasure than to be able to fly into Boston some day and to make your acquaintance. Happy trails until then.

        Mark

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